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the Old Efird Cemetery
By John Hoyle Burleson |
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While
researching our Burleson Family I have spent countless
hours in courthouses and libraries. As a member of the
Burleson Family Research Group I have had the honor to
participate in the preservation of Burleson Cemeteries.
The first project was cleaning and fencing the cemetery
where Isaac Sr. is buried; then placing a marker for Isaac
Jr. and wife Katherine Burleson; the BFRG has also cleaned
and fenced Burleson Cemeteries I and II and helped clean
and reclaim The Harwood cemetery that is the resting place
of Sarah Harwood Burleson, wife of Grandpa Billie Burleson.
Most of the remainder of the clan was buried in church
cemeteries. I have gained much respect for our ancestors
and learned the importance of preserving the hollowed
grounds.
The
Stanly County Genealogical Society (which I am also a
member) is in the process of recording the abandoned cemeteries
in Stanly County for publication. This project is no easy
task but is in the very capable hands of Pam Holbrook
and Priscilla Clarke. My initial participation was to
escort them to the cemeteries I knew of. Sometimes we
could get to the site only by crossing through fields,
woods, and streams. Many times we would have to cut brush
and briars with a machete to reveal any tombstones. To
an inexperienced eye no cemetery would be visible, but
after locating over 120 cemeteries, Pam and Priscilla
developed very trained eyes. If anyone can locate a lost
cemetery, these gals can! |
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back to my Burleson Research, I was fortunate enough
to obtain from Bobbie Nell Burleson Efird a copy of
the Efird book published in 1964 by Judge Oscar Efird.
There were many Burleson and Efird marriages in Stanly
County, I am a grandchild of one of these; Ada Efird
married John F. Burleson in 1903. Her line is Adam
Timothy and Jennie Harkey, Nathaniel Parker Efird
and Eve Coble, Jacob John and Catharine Cagle, and
then Jacob Efird and Elizabeth Dove, who were the
original Efird settlers in what is now Stanly County.
Jacob was born in Wurttemberg in Southern Germany
as Jacob Ehrenfried in 1763. He migrated to Pennsylvania
in 1773 with his mother and father. He came down the
Great Wagon Road to Cabarrus County in 1783 and finely
settled at the mouth of Little Bear Creek prior to
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and
raised eight children. In 1827 Jacob called a meeting
of his children to deal with the same problem that many
German families had, their surname, Ehrenfried, was being
anglized in many different ways. The family was already
prominent in the area. Later in 1841 Jacob was one of
the commissioners that created and divided Stanly County
from Montgomery County. By the end of the family meeting,
they decided to simplify the name to Efird and it remains
so today.
Jacob
died in 1845 and was buried in the family cemetery somewhere
on Jacob’s original 200-acre farm. There were approximately
30 graves in this cemetery according to Judge Efird`s
book. After the second generation of Efird owners, this
land changed hands many times until the present. The graves
were originally said to be well marked with nice tombstones,
many of marble, but all have since disappeared. |
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51 of the Efird book states, “John Soloman Efird,
who was reared in the community in which the Efird
originally settled and knew early Efird history, told
Lily Carter Hoffman, an Efird descendant, on his death
bed in a Charlotte, North Carolina hospital, that
he knew where the old Efird graveyard was.”
He died in 1927 at age 70. This part tells me that
all physical signs were gone, long before 1927 and
only existed in a few local’s memory. My curiosity
was beginning to stir. The location of the cemetery
has been a mystery for well over 100 years. Could
it be found today? As a grandson of Ada Efird and
great-great-great-great-grandson of Jacob Efird, I
would like to try. As a member of the Stanly County
Genealogical Society the resting place of a founding
father of Stanly County needs to be known. |
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I
began to reread the Efird book from cover to cover. Judge
Efird states the location was one-quarter mile east of
St. Martin Church. This land was purchased by Worth Almond
and his wife Nora Burleson Almond approximately 50 years
ago and has been passed down to their daughters, Katherine
Almond Talbert and Nancy Almond Burleson. Katherine and
Nancy and myself are first cousins and share the same
line of Efird decent.
Finding
the lost cemetery was becoming a possibility after talking
to Katherine and obtaining her permission to conduct a
search. A lot of detective work would have to be done.
The next couple of weeks were spent taking notes and studying
all the information from the Efird book, which was very
vague. Some of the clues are:
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Jacob’s house was built into a hillside on the
North side of the old road that went toward what is
now Oakboro. (The trouble is the house is long gone
and the road no longer exists.)
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The cemetery was located to one side of the house. (Which
side?)
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From the front porch, past the spring (which direction
was it facing?) the cemetery could be seen.
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The springs are the only physical clues that still exist.
By studying the contour line on a geodetic map, I plotted
where I thought the “Old Oakboro Road” would
have been, I then looked for a hillside that had the right
contour to allow a two story log house to be set into
the hill (the floor of the first level extended into the
hill with the second level being ground level on the back
of the house only). I plotted this possible location on
the map. The next step was to find a suitable hill for
the cemetery “past the springs”. I plotted
this location on my map. I checked and rechecked all my
information, clues and my contour map. By using my 22
years of military experience of using and teaching the
use of a contour map, I was confident I had plotted the
most likely spot. But how could I prove it? All markings
and tombstones had disappeared over 100 years before.
I needed help. It was time to call for the “Ghost
Busters”! At the next Genealogical Society meeting
I gave Pam and Priscilla a copy of my information from
the book along with a copy of my map. They were ready
to give it a try but they would have to use their special
weapon that earned them the name “Ghost Busters”,
the dowsing rods. I’m sure many of you do not believe
that dowsing works, I didn’t either, but I have
witnessed Pam and Priscilla using them and it works every
time. I saw them locate the slave graves that were known
to be buried outside the Motley Cemetery, but not marked.
By dowsing unmarked spaces in a cemetery they can determine
if it is vacant. They have determined the boundaries of
many cemeteries. I am now a believer!
With
another call to Katherine, Saturday, November 11, 2005
was selected to go exploring. At 10::00 AM Saturday morning
my wife Nancy and I met Pam and Priscilla and went to
Katherine’s house to pick her up. The search area
is now in a cow pasture of about 40 acres. At the pasture
gate our host Katherine Talbert opened the gate and all
five of us loaded into my pick-up truck and we drove through
the pasture. At the spring there are two tremendous oak
trees the size and age surely makes them “Witness
Trees” as they were standing during Jacob’s
life time. We parked near the first oak in what is clearly
the original roadbed of the Old Oakboro Road. This was
one of the clues and my plotting was accurate. I got out
of the truck and looked up the hill where I thought the
dugout of the house would be, but I didn’t see it.
Could I have been right about the road and wrong about
the house? Too late for second-guessing, now the search
team was on the grounds with loads of tools in hand asking
me, “Where do we start?” We walked past the
huge water oak, past the spring and set down the buckets
that contained the shaving cream, squeegee, talc powder,
and magnifying glasses; materials that are used to highlight
and bring out lettering on tombstones.
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As
I’m writing this I am trying not to brag…really,
but this is what happened next. As my wife Nancy
was explaining to Katherine what some of the tools
were used for, Pam Holbrook and Priscilla Clark
were taking out the dowsing rods. I showed everyone
my map where I had marked the area where we were
standing on. I made my final prediction by saying,
“I believe the cemetery was on this ridge
and would be found somewhere between here and the
creek.”
As
Pam and Priscilla took up their dowsing rods and
started walking, the rods crossed with in the first
five steps. Pam looked back over her shoulder to
see if anyone else saw it. Four more feet and the
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again. This time everyone saw it! Could this be happening?
Everyone was excited now and picked up a set of rods. After
twenty minutes or so we started getting down to business
by walking in a grid through the whole area. We located
what we believed were 43 sites, in four different rows.
We walked the area outside the grid for 100 yards with no
hits at all. I feel the tombstones were removed on purpose
over 100 years ago as judge Efird suggested. There is one
adjoining area that is overgrown that we could not check,
but we intend to go back again to look for pieces of tombstone,
which will be physical evidence. This had been a very exciting
morning and successful venture; the only mystery now is
the location of Jacob’s house site. |
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were loaded back in the truck by 1:00 PM and heading
back up the pasture. We had only gone 100 yards
from the springs and there, ten feet from the old
roadbed, was a clearly identifiable excavation approximately
20 feet by 40 feet into the east slope of the hill.
No doubt this is the site of Jacob Efird’s
House that he built almost 200 years ago just as
it was described in Judge Efird’s book.
Back
at the highway as Katherine was closing the cattle
gate I realized that the five of us today had just
accomplished a task that no one has been able to
do in over a hundred years. The memory of the emigrants,
Jacob Efird and his family, will not be lost in
the future.
Jacob
Efird settled at the mouth of Little Bear Creek
prior to 1806. He built and owned the first gristmill
and sawmill in that part of the state. He organized
St. Martin Luthern Church and was instrumental in
organizing Flat Rock Lutheran Church in Locust.
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a
community leader he was one of the nine men appointed
by the State Legislature in 1841 to divide Montgomery
County and establish the new county of Stanly and also
establish its' courts and government.
BFRG members that are Efird descendants include:
L. B. Teeter Bobby Burleson
John H. Burleson Hazel Hopkins
Daniel S. Burleson Donald K. Burleson
Clegg Burleson Kathleen Efird
Retha Burleson Bobbie Nell Efird
Kenneth Efird
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